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“I’m a single female looking to marry a man in uniform. Where should I look?”
We’ve all seen posts like that on Facebook and Reddit, but what actually happens to those who turn to the internet in search of a uniformed significant other?
The aim of the 419 military format is to make your client trust you as a good citizen of America and to avoid the whole brouhaha of video calls and phone calls. You must have a good knowledge of the American military system before you decide to use the military dating format for any client you meet online. We scoured the web and found the 11 Best Free Military Dating Websites for singles in the Marines, Navy, Army, Air Force, Coast Guard, or any other branch of service. These sites also work for single civilians who want to date a man or woman in uniform.
While advice from the world wide web seldom disappoints, it may not exactly prove helpful in the conquest of singles.
“How can I meet real military men who are single and might be looking for an honest relationship?” one Quora user asked.
“This is a very shallow question,” user Jon Ray responded.
“This is the equivalent of me (a male) asking where I can find women with a chest size of ‘D’ or higher who are interested in an honest relationship or where I can find fashion models who are interested in long term relationships.”
This forlorn, anonymous romance-seeker represents just one of thousands turning to online fora in search of life, love and a little BAH.
“How can I meet and date a single U.S. soldier? I’m a city girl wanting to date a man of honor, a man that serves his country,” another such hopeful wrote on Quora.
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The results to this query were equally amusing, with respondent Robin Jewell writing, “I hate to break it to you, but no one becomes a better person just because they put on a set of clothing. If they were not honorable and worthy of respect before, they will not be afterwards. Don’t buy into the glamour of the recruitment ads. A uniform does not turn someone into Prince Charming.”
Still, the pursuit is so popular that EHow, a UK-based how-to publication, wrote an explainer on the topic with in-depth tips that would make anyone with a modicum of shame cringe.
“Many men in the military have a hard time finding girlfriends or wives loyal enough to stay with them throughout constant deployments and obstacles,” EHow noted.
“Go to a military base,” the piece continues. “You can find a job there, meet people who work there, or go to an event there. Make friends who are in the military. Girlfriends who are involved in the military will know military men and be able to introduce you.”
Seems simple enough. And if picking up your entire life to work at the commissary outside the idyllic Fort Drum or the lovely Twentynine Palms doesn’t do the trick, there’s always online dating.
Several prominent military dating sites and apps, including Military Cupid, Uniform Dating and U.S. Military Singles boast the best algorithms for finding Lt. Right.
Reviews of those sites, however, do not exactly encourage participation.
Where there’s a will, there’s a way.
If you feel you have been scammed by a person claiming to be a U.S. Soldier, contact the FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center and the Federal Trade Commission.
Army CID is warning anyone who is involved in online dating to proceed with caution when corresponding with persons claiming to be U.S. Soldiers currently serving in Iraq, Afghanistan, Syria or elsewhere.
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Army CID receives hundreds of allegations a month from victims who state they got involved in an online relationship with someone, on a legitimate dating website or other social media website, who claims to be a U.S. Soldier. The 'Soldier' then begins asking for money for various FALSE, service-related needs such as transportation costs, communication fees, marriage, processing and medical fees. Victims of these online scams have lost hundreds of thousands of dollars, with a very low possibility of recovery.
The U.S. has established numerous task force organizations to deal with this growing epidemic; unfortunately, many times the people committing these scams are from African countries using untraceable email addresses, routing accounts through numerous locations around the world and utilizing pay per hour Internet cyber cafes, which often times maintain no accountability of use.
Read the Joint Service Sextortion Brochure for more information and see examples of fake documents used by scammers.
You can also learn more about identity theft, romance scams, sextortion and online impostors at the U.S. Army's Social Media Resources site.
For more on these fraudulent acts, read the announcements released by Army CID:
U.S. Army CID Warn Citizens to Be Vigilant Against Internet, Digital Scammers
With National Spotlight on Internet Romance-Type Scams, Army CID Makes Additional Attempts to Warn Unsuspecting Victims
U.S. Army CID Pleads with Public, Warns Against Romance Scams
CID warns Army community about social media impersonation of Soldier accounts
- - DO NOT SEND MONEY! Be extremely suspicious if you are asked for money for transportation costs, communication fees or marriage processing and medical fees via Western Union.
- - If you do start an Internet-based relationship with someone, check them out, research what they are telling you with someone who would know, such as a current or former service member.
- - Be very suspicious if you never get to actually speak with the person on the phone or are told you cannot write or receive letters in the mail. Servicemen and women serving overseas will often have an APO or FPO mailing address. Internet or not, service members always appreciate a letter in the mail.
- - Many of the negative claims made about the military and the supposed lack of support and services provided to troops overseas are far from reality - check the facts.
- - Be very suspicious if you are asked to send money or ship property to a third party or company. Often times the company exists, but has no idea or is not a part of the scam.
- - Be very suspicious if the person you are corresponding with wants you to mail anything to an African country.
- - Be aware of common spelling, grammatical or language errors in the emails.
- - Be very suspicious of someone you have never met and who pledges their love at warp speed.
Saying they are on a peace keeping mission, looking for an honest woman, parents deceased, wife deceased, child being cared for by nanny or other guardian, profess their love almost immediately, refer to you as 'my love,' 'my darling' or any other affectionate term almost immediately, telling you they cannot wait to be with you, telling you they cannot talk on the phone or via webcam due to security reasons, or telling you they are sending you something (money, jewelry) through a diplomat. Finally, they claim to be a U.S. Army Soldier; however, their English and grammar do not match that of someone born and raised in the United States.
Here are answers to some of the most common types of scams:
- 1. Soldiers and their loved ones are not charged money so that the Soldier can go on leave.
- 2. No one is required to request leave on behalf of a Soldier.
- 3. A general officer will not correspond with you on behalf of a Soldier planning to take leave.
- 4. A general officer will not be a member of an internet dating site.
- 5. Soldiers are not charged money or taxes to secure communications or leave.
- 6. Soldiers do not need permission to get married.
- 7. Soldiers do not have to pay for early retirement.
- 8. Soldiers have medical insurance for themselves and their immediate family members (spouse and/or children), which pays for their medical costs when treated at health care facilities worldwide - family and friends do not need to pay their medical expenses.
- 9. Military aircraft are not used to transport Privately Owned Vehicles.
- 10. Army financial offices are not used to help Soldiers buy or sell items of any kind.
- 11. Soldiers deployed to combat zones do not need to solicit money from the public to feed or house their troops.
- 12. Deployed Soldiers do not find large sums of money and do not need your help to get that money out of the country.
Report the theft to the Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) (FBI-NW3C Partnership). Online: http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx
Report the theft to the Federal Trade Commission. Your report helps law enforcement officials across the United States in their investigations. Online: http://www.ftc.gov/idtheft
By phone: 1-877-ID-THEFT (438-4338) or TTY, 1-866-653-4261
By mail: Identity Theft Clearinghouse, Federal Trade Commission, Washington, DC 20580
Report the fraud to the Federal Trade Commission on Nigerian Scams. Email: spam@uce.gov.
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